Congratulations! You’ve said “yes” (or “about time!”), and now you’ve got a sparkly ring and a lifetime of being asked “So when’s the big day?” ahead of you. But don’t panic – here’s a light-hearted guide to what comes next:
1. Take a Moment to Breathe (and Brag)
First things first, admire that ring. Take 50 selfies with it. Post one to Instagram with a caption like “He put a ring on it 💍” or “Future Mrs/Mr [Your Last Name]!” because, let’s be honest, this is your moment to bask in the glow of all those heart emojis.
2. Tell the Important People – Strategically
Your mum will want to hear it first – not via Facebook, thank you very much. Start with close family and friends, then let the news trickle out. Bonus points if you FaceTime your gran and let her cry with joy.
3. Prepare for The Questions
The moment people find out you’re engaged, they’ll become amateur wedding planners. Questions like “Have you set a date?” and “Where’s the venue?” will fly at you faster than confetti. Smile, nod, and keep a rehearsed answer handy: “We’re still enjoying the moment, but we’ll let you know!” (Translation: We have no idea yet. Please stop asking.)
4. Start Dreaming – Within Reason
Yes, Pinterest is a beautiful, dangerous place. It’s easy to go from “rustic barn wedding” to “unicorns with flower crowns” in ten minutes flat. Enjoy the inspiration, but remember you don’t need a 15-piece harp orchestra for the ceremony (unless that’s your thing – no judgement!).
5. Budget Reality Check
Speaking of unicorns, this is the bit where you take a deep breath and sit down to discuss the dreaded B word – budget. You may not be able to afford a wedding in a Scottish castle, but your local village hall with fairy lights? Absolute vibes.
6. Get Ready for Opinions – Lots of Them
Your aunt will insist you need a three-tier fruitcake. Your best mate will suggest an open bar with tequila shots. Your future in-laws might subtly hint at a guest list that includes their neighbour’s dog. Here’s the golden rule: it’s your day. Smile politely, then do whatever the heck you want.
7. Don’t Forget to Enjoy Being Engaged
In the whirlwind of planning, don’t overlook the fact that this is a bloody lovely time in your life. Go on dates, toast with prosecco, and soak up the excitement. There’s plenty of time for spreadsheets and dress fittings – for now, just enjoy staring at your partner and thinking, “I get to marry this human.”
And remember, the most important thing isn’t the venue, the dress, or the colour of the napkins – it’s the two of you, ready to take on the world together (and maybe argue about the seating plan).
Cheers to your happily-ever-after – now, go celebrate! 🥂
